30-year-old kicks evicted 24-year-old brother and GF out after picking on his 6-year-old son's mom: 'I’m not about to let two grown adults bring chaos into my home'

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Ben Weiss • Writer and Editor
May 25, 2025 2:00 PM EDT

This dude's chaotic brother and girlfriend are pure trouble. After getting evicted from their apartment, the older brother was generous enough to allow them to crash at his place while they were taking the time they needed to rebound and get back on their feet. 

The catch was that the older brother had house rules. Nothing over-the-top, but he needed the place to remain orderly and stable for the sake of his 6-year-old son. Unfortunately, this backfired quickly as the younger brother and his girlfriend were simply unable to follow said house rules after about a month. At that point, the older brother was likely already wondering when they were planning on moving out, so when they started to bend his rules, he had plenty of cause to kick them out. 

However, the straw that really broke the camel's back had to do with the 6-year-old's mother when she came one weekend to drop her son off at the apartment. The drama that ensued led to even more family conflict!

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  • We have to hand it to the older brother not only for standing up for himself and for his kid, but for also going out of his way to stand up for his kid's mother. Even if there was some truth behind the comments made by the younger brother and his girlfriend, they had no right to deliver that message. The fact that the author's own mother had to step in to scold him also just goes to show that these folks have no legs to stand on at this point. If you're like them and you need a place to stay for an indefinite amount of time, you might consider being respect of the folks with whom you're staying.

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    Alright y'all, need some outside perspective because my family's making me feel like the bad guy. I (30M) moved
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    into a new place a few months back. It's nothing fancy, but it's a good, stable spot for me and my 6-year-old son. Around
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    that time, my younger brother Tyrell (24M) and his girlfriend Amber (22F) got evicted and asked if they could crash with me for a while. I didn't really
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    want to, but they had nowhere else, and I figured it'd just be temporary.
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    At first, it was fine. But after about a month, they started getting way too comfortable. Ignoring house rules I set - like no
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    random people over when I'm not home, no s king in the house, and being respectful when my son is there.
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    Instead? They had people in and out while I was at work, left the place trashed, blasted music
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    while my son was sleeping, and I caught Amber s king in the bathroom twice.
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    The biggest issue, though, was how they disrespected my son's mother. Now - me and my baby moms aren't together, but we're cool.
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    She picks up our son on weekends and sometimes drops him off at the house. Well, Amber took it upon herself to start
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    making little slick comments whenever my son's mom came by. Petty, unnecessary stuff
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    like, "oh, you actually showed up this time" or "didn't know you still cared".
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    My son's mom kept it classy, but she told me it made her uncomfortable, and I agreed it was out of pocket.
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    I confronted them about everything and Tyrell tried to downplay it like "she was just joking" and told me to stop being sensitive. That was the last straw for me.
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    I gave them 30 days to find somewhere else. Of course, now I'm the bad guy. My mom's blowing up my phone saying "family sticks together"
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    and "they just need guidance." Amber's been posting subliminals on Facebook about "fake people who pretend to help you then turn their back."
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    But I don't care. My house, my rules. I'm raising a son and I'm not about to let two grown adults bring chaos into my home.
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    So AITA for kicking them out after they disrespected my house, my rules, and my son's mother?
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    Your brother & his girlfriend are showing no respect for you, your son, your home, or your son's mother.
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    The "only joking" garbage is ALWAYS ridiculous. Tell anyone giving you a hard time that they're welcome to take the two of them into their home.
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    You are absolutely NTA - and 30 days' notice was generous.
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